I'm working at home and, mid morning, I just went up to go to the loo and I couldn't remember if I'd cleaned my teeth today. Very quickly I realised that if I had, then my toothbrush would still be damp. I checked, it was dry so I knew that my pearlies needed some attention.
Now I might have been tempted to assign this experience to the "getting older - memory going" category. But I know that I've always been like this. I get really involved in what I'm doing and can't remember if the routine things have been done or not. I bet if you search your experience you'll find the same as well. We are all forgetful at times, whether its about our friend's birthdays or putting the bins out. But because of this we have all developed strategies to help our memories, they may be things like diaries that warn you of things in advance (but you still need to remember to look at them!) or other physical checks, like the damp toothbrush, that can tell you if a thing has been done.
Its great to recognise that we are all capable of devising schemes to help our memories at whatever age we are and to recognise and be comfortable about these schemes already being in place as we grow older. As you have been devising these for years then you are probably really good at it so just keep doing it and continue to support you memory in clever ways.
Ask yourself the two simple questions - What did I use to remind myself today? and What tricks did I use to check that things had been done? These give you the basis for development of new memory helping strategies.









